You know how I told you my sister is pregnant. I don't want to get into too much detail because the details are just mind numbing... Let's put it this way she's 22 years old, no job, no support system because she's screwed over each person in our family one way or another... Now she's pregnant, luckily they are living in his parents basement (did I mention he's turning 31 this month). They have nothing but drama, we're talking domestics, affairs and the list could go on.
After being used over and over by my sister I finally had it and I told her just how I felt. I told her she can't even take care of herself she has no business bringing a baby into her bullshit and that if she had half a brain she'd put the kid up for adoption.
She in turn tried to hint to me that she has slept with my husband... years ago though. I of course know this is totally false and when i asked her for the details she couldn't provide them to me because it would "hurt" me too much. I know without a doubt it's a lie... but really how much hate can you have in your heart to throw YOURSELF under the bus and hint that you slept with your sisters husband (boyfriend at the time). That's a special kind of hate... that's like Sybil crazy.
So why do I still feel like I should be supportive after she's run over me so many times?!?!
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7 years ago
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You feel like that because she is family and we are typically obligated to forgive family. I can kinda relate. All of my husbands family are like that. When his mom died he just cut ties with that whole (psycho) family of his. I think it was the best choice. No more drama.
oh also, btw, i used to be socially conscious darling, but i changed my name. i'm not sure if you need to update your google reader or anything.
In knowing Chris and your sis I would really double think that one. Something maybe did happen once or twice who knows only they can tell and time will tell someday I hope just for your sake. If he loves you truly he will tell. But don't blow up men are men and sometimes they think with the wrong head. And that was before you are one now. Think it over really hard. love ya
Oh no, what a terrible situation to bring a baby into. Maybe instead of being supportive of your sister's bad choices, you can be supportive to the new baby and be there for him/her whenever things are bad? I don't know...I have a BA in Psychology but I don't use it. :-)
Sorry to hear that another child will be born to unfit parents. You've been doing all you can, I'm sure, to talk sense into her and set a good example.
Keep faith,
Robyn
Hm, obviously anonymous doesn't know my husband very well LOL. If you did you would know that my husband despises my sister and always has... regardless I wasn't born yesterday and Chris and I did sit down and talk about it and I know my husband and I know my gut, and my heart and it's absolutley NOT true. Chris and I are too lazy to cheat on each other LOL
He despises her only because she was bad in the sack. LOL And you know he needs it three times a day at the least. He is not lazy all he would have to do back then is walk down the stairs. Your lucky I give it to him twice a day so you only have to do it once a day.
Well anonymous considering you work at Nationwide Insurance kind of funny you're able to work full time and fit in screwing my husband AND be gone by the time I get home from work. I am impressed with your tight schedule. Your lack of knowledge about our sex life is hilarious.
Anonymous was just messing around. But it sounded like a good life time movie. LOL Love you
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maybe i screwed it up for everyone. i think other people are getting it in their readers. maybe if you go to my blog page and click on the follow button that might work.
I did screw up my blog, but it is now fixed. All of my followers were deleted, so if you still want to follow me you have to re-add me. Thanks!
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